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11 October 2022

Hello, Hervey Bay!

 Where are we now...? Hervey Bay!

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As you can see, Hervey Bay is a city North East of Gympie, a 1½-hour drive. Situated on the Fraser Coast, it is a bustling town, thriving from whale-watching tourism. At the moment it is whaling season. Apparently almost $11 million is injected annually into the region from whale-watching tourism. Hervey Bay has been named as the world's first Whale Heritage Site by the World Cetacean Alliance. Nearby is Fraser Island (or K’gari, as it has now been named) – a popular destination for tourists and locals alike for fishing, camping and 4WD expeditions, only accessible by ferry. 

There is much to see and do in Hervey Bay alone. In the coming days we hope to make up a list of places we’d like to visit in the mornings and on weekends when AJ doesn’t work. We look forward to discovering the area. Sadly, the house is a 20-minute drive from the beach, so there are no frequent beach walks – we are trying to conserve our fuel consumption.  

The weather at present is moody and cloudy. We still feel cold. Coming from the desert it will take a while for us to adjust. The current temperatures here are winter temps in Qatar. As tourists, we truly look the part! The only ones covered to the chin when we go out. Locals are dressed for summer, and along we come in our jackets. 😁

Those darn peskies!

The house we are minding now is in a suburb of Hervey Bay, called Eli Waters. Saltwater canals fed by the Eli Creek, wind between immaculate houses. There are walking/cycling paths along the edge of lakes where we walk each morning for about 5.5 km. 


The area is a mangrove wetland.  We have been warned to look out for snakes, yes, but also for sand flies, aka, biting midges, aka black flies. 😣 The locals could use any one of the three names for these pesky creatures, but they are one and the same. They are especially prevalent when there is no breeze. Tinier than a mosquito, they pack a nasty punch, which begins to itch sometimes only 24 hours later.  We were told that if we wanted to sit on the patio, we would need to put the fan on to blow them away. Sunrise and sunset are when they appear the most. They are worse in rainy weather (thankfully it’s been dry) and at full moon or new moon. A complex insect if ever there was one. The smaller ones are able to fly through the mesh of fly-screens … 😖

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In Tandur I was bitten by what I thought to be mozzies on the one occasion that I didn’t spray my feet and ankles and went walkabout in the garden. I was in agony for days, and I’m beginning to wonder if they weren’t biting midge wounds. Yes, I call them wounds! 😣 I am allergic to mosquito bites, but this was so much worse. They have left scars on my feet and ankles that I’m hoping will eventually fade. We are constantly spraying ourselves with Sandy’s Essentials' Peskies-Off spray when we step outside. It seems to work, and that makes me happy; I’ve had one bite since we arrived, and it was the day I relied on the wind to stop them and didn’t spray myself to hang up the washing outside. AJ, who never gets bitten, is suffering from multiple bites because he thought that, like mozzies, they would not bother him and chose not to spray himself on the first two days. He quickly discovered otherwise, poor guy. 

AJ's legs showing midge bites

😬 The thing is, as soon as one sees or feels a bug, you feel as if your skin is crawling all over with them! 😅 There'll be no relaxing on patios while we are here! 

Remedies? We have been given all manner of remedies … the most popular local remedy is a spray made up of equal parts of Dettol and Baby Oil. Another remedy the locals believe in is consuming large amounts of Vegemite. It's the Vit B, they say, that the midges don't like. 😅 (... one midge to another, "Ugh! Don't bother with that guy, he's on the Vegemite bottle!" 😂) This Aussie staple is Australia’s version of the beloved UK Marmite … except that it honestly has a more medicinal, albeit salty taste. 😄 Believe me, you can buy Vegemite flavoured Baked beans, Vegemite Pizza, and more. There are recipes for Vegemite hot cross buns, and Vegemite roast potatoes. The Aussies are crazy over their Vegemite. We’ve started eating it on toast, but vast amounts… nah! 😅

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Heavy-duty insect repellents for tropical areas are sold in the stores, but these are no joke – they have a high concentration of DEET (diethyltoluamide). I can’t imagine long-term use of that yellow goo and what it could do to a person's system. Natural repellents sound far more appealing of which there are many on the market here. Especially when you're practically bathing yourself in the stuff all day long. 🥴 We’ll continue to test my mix to make it effective. I perfected a spray to repel Qatar’s flies 😄 … I’m hoping to beat this annoying midge as well. In the meantime, it’s a running joke that we hear from everyone ... "midges love international tourists!" The locals have seemingly become immune to them. 😄

God’s grace and mercy    

People call us lucky!

“You're so lucky”, they say. We disagree.

Why? Well, six years of planning have come to fruition. We sacrificed a load of things over those six years to save for this. We worked our butts off and were content with staying home when others went away or had fun times out. We planned carefully and asked our Father many a time for His will to be done in our lives. Not lucky... blessed. Blessed by pure Grace. We are amazed at how God has facilitated things for us. How many times did we run to Him, put things before Him, ask for His will, and beg Him for guidance along the way. Pure grace! Grace and mercy. No, these two concepts are in no way similar. Here is a lovely explanation of their difference.



We pray that we will never take his kindness for granted. Yet, there are times when we stray, stress, and rush, and forget to ask for His guidance. Sometimes He says no. Sometimes He’s silent. But mostly, we are gobsmacked at how He has worked things out for us. For weeks on end, before we left Doha, we felt that He was giving us the same promise of protection from His word. Our blog post in July discussed this. Eventually, we sat up and took notice, but our stress levels ran high regardless.

 

Upon our arrival, our family facilitated our stay with a warm welcome. We launched into getting the equipment for the van and the Ute. The cost of everything caused us to break out into a sweat. But because the van will be our home, we pressed forward with what we needed. Thankfully, AJ was retained as an instructor by his company in Qatar. What a help and what a gift from our Father! More mercy and grace.

 

After 2 weeks AJ began to work. A routine that has taken some getting used to. His ‘workday’ starts at 13:30 and ends at 21:30. The first week of training was a struggle in the family home because of the busy, playful, children. But then came the first house sitting. There we were, in beautiful quiet surroundings, with ample space in a large home and AJ ensconced in a study. Caring for the dogs was a joy! Towards the end of the week, the homeowners called and generously offered their home to us for an extra 2 days to avoid having to move in with our family for only 2 nights. They remembered that we had said we were leaving for the coast on the Monday after they collected the dogs. (That house is their weekend home – they live elsewhere full-time.)

‘That would make things easier’, we said, ‘thank you’!

Two hours later our daughter called to say they were all ill with a mystery virus. It had hit some of them in the family harder than others. We were amazed at God’s provision and protective hand, as we could not afford to be exposed to a virus and then move on to meet the next homeowners directly before they travelled abroad, possibly infecting them too. Also, we do not have a medical card or cover yet. Our application was delayed in the mail due to some unknown factor. God’s timing and goodness left us speechless. Mercy! Grace! (The family in Gympie are only just recovering from the nasty virus, almost 10 days later.)


In Tandur the dogs were collected as planned. The last two days were spent packing up, cleaning the house, and catching up with online tasks. AJ was given an unexpected course to teach and was able to spend the last day preparing material, well into the night. Early on Monday 3 October, we departed for Hervey Bay. The drive was pleasant, along a different route to the last time when we came up to meet the homeowners. We arrived early enough to do a quick walk along the esplanade in Hervey Bay. It was so good to finally see, and smell, the ocean. 


We planned to stay the night in a motel, as we needed to be at the new house sitting early the following morning. We had to be at the motel and checked in by 14:00 so that AJ could begin teaching a group in Doha. A few minutes before the time I went to check us in, while AJ used a hotspot from his phone to connect his laptop to the internet, in the Ute, to link up with his students. In true digital nomad style, he transitioned from the Ute to the room like a pro. 😊 He settled himself into a corner of the room to teach, while I went off in search of some supper. Fresh fish and chips sold from the nearby Marina. 



 












The next morning AJ was up at 05:00 to continue prepping for the new course later that day. We had to be at the house-sitting venue by 09:00. We gobbled down a small brekkie with coffee and rushed over. We had offered to give the homeowners a ride to the station in Maryborough, the town where Mary Poppins was born! 😊 (Yes… I sense a blog post in the making … 😉). From there they would take the train to Brisbane International Airport. Before they left, we were given the rundown of instructions, acquired the all-important Wi-fi password and were presented with a fabulous lasagne lunch, along with salads no less, to enjoy later in the day! They had catered a delicious meal for us, at a time when they were packing and preparing for a major overseas trip! 

“The pantry is yours; the wine rack is yours”, they said. “Use the meat in the freezer! Please help yourself to anything you need. The vegetables in the garden are yours. We bought you brown sugar.” (They remembered, from 3 weeks ago when we came to meet them, that we preferred brown sugar in coffee!) They moved all their tools around in the garage so that our Ute would fit in. What an amazing couple! Such a blessing for us. 

Grace and mercy abound.


Returning to the house after the ride to the station, we went into unpack mode and well and truly moved in. We were speechless at God’s care, evident through this secular couple. As we had no groceries yet and were feeling a little lost and strange (and hungry!), we were overwhelmed with gratefulness for the lunch. AJ had to begin teaching at 14:00, and once again the space was just perfect for his use – well away from the hub of the house and the noise I might make in the kitchen. Later, I did my first solo shop for groceries. I took a wrong turn and got lost. Only then did I decide to activate google maps 😆. Arriving at the store, I felt jitterbugs… strange aisles, strange faces, strange names for things, strange brands. Strange checkout methods too -- vegetables are weighed at the till and the till operator packs the bags. It all felt so unreal. And to cap it all, I had had to park the Ute for the first time, in a very small space, under pressure, with a queue of cars behind me waiting to pass. 😅😆 And the jolly thing felt huge – I was expecting a bump or a scratch at the very least. Lol. Before we could blink, our first day in the house in Hervey Bay was over.



There is more pressure to take care of this property. They are clearly very particular, with absolutely nothing out of place! Everything was sparkling clean and neat when we moved in. The lady of the house used to be a nursing sister, so the house shouts clinical cleanliness, all in white, minimal style. The kitchen has white stone benchtops. Gulp! But so far (a week in) so good. There are strict instructions on how and when to water the plants, with specific plants mentioned. After 21 years of not having a garden worth mentioning, there’s me, running to Google to find which is which. 😊 No animal to take care of this time … their beloved dog died 2 months ago before we arrived in Aus. His name was Jack. On the list of plants is ‘Jack’s Gardenia’, with a note that ‘this plant is very important’. (Jack’s ashes are in an urn on a shelf in the study. 😧) Trust me – I cannot see a Gardenia in this garden. Not for the life of me! And I know what a Gardenia looks like. 😖😬 I even checked that I had it right by googling Gardenia images. 😯

 

They return on 5 November at 7 in the evening. After handing over the keys, we’ll spend the night in a motel nearby to avoid driving at night. The next day we make our way to Brisbane to take delivery of the van on 7 November. The time is getting closer. Not once have we practised what we were taught in the towing course 😣… we had better get our noses in those course notes. 😅

 

Andries is teaching 5 days a week. While he teaches I write, plan, budget, and catch up on correspondence. I’ve managed to put a bucket list together of things to do and see while we are in Hervey Bay. After a week we’ve managed to cross off 4. Three weeks to go. Grace and mercy sustain us.


My workspace in the kitchen

Last Sunday we visited the local Baptist Church and received a mighty blessing. So pleased we went, even though that age-old enemy tried to keep us away. We pray grace and mercy over them as a congregation. We pray over you as our followers and prayer partners; over South Africa, our birth country; over Qatar and our children and friends there, during this difficult time of the FIFA World Cup event; over Australia too, that is fast becoming a secular, Christian-averse country. 😕 Over our children and grandchildren who live here, for a future in the Lord, and for many chances to witness to them of God’s beautiful plan for salvation for all mankind.

 

Friends and family, we appreciate you. We pray for each of you. May God extend His grace and mercy over each one of you. In Jesus’ name.

 

Until next time. 🌼 Blessings from us. ♥



Graphic insert: Pigeons by Mohamed Hassan via Pixabay.










26 September 2022

Home is where you ...

Home is where you ... unpack your luggage! 

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What was that?!

It was a wet, sniffly, snorting kiss – right across my cheek and nose! I woke up with a start … what was that?! Where am I? I couldn’t see my hand in front of my face, it was so dark … and the snorting, grunting monster was still right there next to me…and then I remembered … we’re in Tandur! House sitting 4 dogs. And I had just been kissed by one at 2 AM! 😁

“Yes, Bentley …” I said as I reached out a sleepy hand to find that snout. Instinctively I knew it was he. The teenager … the busy one … he had to let me know that he’s up to go out for the toilet. He can do it on his own as there is a dog flap for 24/7 exit/entry. Lol. I heard him go and come back in again ... strange sounds in a strange house in the middle of a very dark night. And yet, I felt I should pinch myself … perhaps I was dreaming? No, it’s for real!

We feel extremely blessed to have this opportunity. It’s a lovely home in the countryside of Gympie. Tandur is considered a suburb. I’ve had a quick search to find the history, and why it’s called Tandur but didn’t find anything, except that a school was started here in 1924. 😊  We arrived to begin the week-long sit mostly to care for the dogs – 3 Frenchies and a cute little mixed breed. Bob, Bentley, Bonnie and Breezy. The surroundings are calm and lush. It’s a huge property with plenty of space for them to run. We had an early night with the dogs on the first night and woke up to amazing bird sounds the next morning. While we were having coffee in bed a kangaroo passed by the bottom of the garden, in full view of the bedroom window, reminding us that we were in Australia. This time I had to pinch myself. We are so grateful to God for this blessing. 💕 The homeowners have made us feel very welcome; their instructions were carefully typed out and laminated; a laminated photo of each dog at its feeding station so that we can identify them, and the order of feeding was made very clear! Bob is the top dog! 😊

Settling in

We felt general nervousness-cum-excitement as we approached the time to head over to Tandur. We shopped for groceries for the 5 days but to be able to cook a meal you need all the bits too, like sauces, flour, and seasonings, and we had nothing. So, it was shopping for supplies from scratch which made me nervous, looking at the prices of everything. We packed up our belongings, loaded the car and moved on. The initial three weeks at Nadya and Dave’s were over and were we grateful for their support at the start of this new journey! It’s been non-stop go, go, go with daily commitments to get us set up for life in Aus, and to meet government regulations.

One of our tasks was to visit a financial advisor to do our first tax return. Because we had entered the country already in March, the 5 months spent in Doha were taxable. The payment for the last financial year is due by end of September. We have had our first tax bill! 😄😑 We have also opened bank accounts, a Post Office box for a fixed mailing address in case our children ever have to move, and submitted our application for the next stage of our visa – a HUGE step and an even bigger relief that it is done. 

We have submitted docs for medical cover and drafted an updated will. These first three weeks also included shopping for everything we need in the van. Some things are mandatory according to the law, and others are obvious items needed for everyday life. I felt as if I had had a kitchen tea at one stage since there was only that much we could send over from Doha. We needed to stock up with everyday items we left behind. We have also had to invest in first-aid kits including snake- and spider-bite kits (the next 2 months will be in snake and spider territory 🥴😅), camp chairs, a table, kitchen crockery, an awning tie-down kit which can withstand the wild weather in Australia, a variety of tools, storage boxes, water filters, bed linen and more. 

Shopping online in Australia is a breeze, and since Gympie does not have all the items on offer, we took full advantage. It's so fun getting parcels through the mail. 😄 We are not nearly through our list of items needed. Fortunately there is a month before we get the van. So much is needed to live on the road, all the while hoping that we'll remain within the maximum weight allowed for the van and the Ute. It’s a challenge we are only beginning to learn, and it's a rule that Queensland cops relish with glee. 🥴 Our computer gear is part of the load, printer included. However, the towing course last Friday was fun. In the end, I couldn’t stop shaking for an hour afterwards, but we found it invaluable. We both reversed the practice trailer-van into the parking space from the right and the left … reversed in a circle without jack-knifing … and learned tips and tricks that might help us not to be too much of a reality show in a caravan park when we try to manoeuvre into a space! 😆😅 We have lots of practising to do and homework to complete before we start towing. Equally as interesting will be finding ways to set up and take down at each stop without too much fuss.😅

New working routine

AJ has completed his first workweek for Gulf Helicopters. The routine will be something to get used to. We have mornings to do things; then at 13:30 Australia time he begins his work ‘day’, it being 06:30 in Qatar. He wraps up at 21:30 having to unwind a bit before he can get his brain to recognise that it’s time for bed.  😆 He’s amazing, embracing full-time TEAMS teaching like a champ! We managed to invest in a new laptop that makes it easier, as he can use a surface pen to do his usual diagrams as he used to on the whiteboard in a classroom. Fortunately, he is a night person, so going through to 21:30 is a breeze for him. I’m the morning person, mostly up with the birds, moving about, making coffee and waking him up when he could be sleeping late. 🥴 Nevertheless, his contract is an incredible blessing from our Father – a helpful kickstart to our time in Aus.

House Sitting

For us house sitting right now involves a lot of packing and unpacking. But once we have the van loaded with our possessions there will be less hassle to it all. There are pros and cons to everything in life, and in the end, it’s what one makes of it. This is the lifestyle we have chosen for our first few years in Australia. Yes, it’s always going to be a strange bed, new surroundings, strange sights and sounds, new animals each time … new shops, new streets, new neighbours, different routines. But right now, we are grateful for a space to call our own in which to be private, eat the way we prefer, and just enjoy our familiar routine, even if it’s just for 6 days.

During our second weekend in Australia, we took a drive up north to meet the homeowners that we will sit for in Oct and in November. We made it an overnight stop as it’s quite far to travel. It was the first road trip in our Ute. AJ enjoyed every minute. Believe me, it was also stressful … merely stopping at a fuel station was a challenge. 😆 Over here you have to refuel your vehicle yourself. You then walk into the store to pay, while everyone waits patiently. We were also hungry, so we moved the car to a parking space to go in and have a bite with coffee. Wow! It was the start of the school holidays, and the place was overrun. You had better know what you want and how to order it!! Luckily, they knew from our accents that we weren’t locals, so they were a little more helpful behind the counter. 😬😅 And I think they saw the desperate look in our eyes as we were trying to figure out how to order and where.

We also saw our first free camp up close and personal – one that we plan to stay in with our van for one night on the way back from house sitting in December, in a small town called Tiaro. (I said Tee-AH-ro, but Aussies say TY-ro 😆. BEWARE if you pronounce an Aussie name incorrectly … you are pounced upon!).  Free camps are exactly that, in Australia, FREE. Well, sort of. 😊 Managed by local town councils, they are areas that one can pull into for 24 hours without payment. Often there is a toilet and shower nearby, but for many one must be self-contained. Some will only have a long drop. 😊 This one at Tiaro has a shower that switches off after 2 mins. And it won't start again before 3 mins are over. 😁 Quick showers will be the norm for us anyway, even in the van, as water is something we'll cart with us and will need to use sparingly. 

Some free camps allow you to stay for 48 hours and some for 72 hours. The general understanding is that you would support the local pub or shops, or at the very least pop a $10 note in the box on the campsite and leave the site clean and tidy. (Pubs in Australia are not dissimilar to those in the UK, where they are the hangout for all the locals and travellers, and where you can get a hearty meal along with your beer and enjoy an overnight stay if needed. Each seemingly has its own story and its own character. 😊) In a week we’re off to our second house sitting further north.

Shipments arriving

We have just been notified that our first crate (from Doha) has arrived in port in Melbourne. It will take a couple of weeks to get to Brisbane. Another is due later in October with items from South Africa. 

We are having to invest in storage space at our children’s home, to store some of our things until it can all be sorted. I couldn’t part with my childhood books, for example. Hoping the grandkids will enjoy them. Andries’ golf clubs are on the way -- he can’t wait. Some glassware items for Nadya that were heirlooms from our mothers. And lots of photos! Oh, and my sewing machine. Who knows, I might be able to take up some sewing again. 

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That’s us for now. 😊

Thanks for stopping by. We’re grateful for your support along the way in this new adventure. Gus and Cha, we miss you so much, words aren't enough. 😢😞 

Next blog will be from up north in a few weeks … be blessed all. 💕

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1 September 2022

Goodbye, Qatar

 The Home We Had


For 21 years, you, Qatar, 

were the home we – expats and nomads – had.

You were constant, welcoming, and steadfast as the sun and sand;

a land where villas, compounds and towering apartments offer a refuge at hand.


A land of contrast –

harsh yet friendly, strict yet accommodating.

Where sunrise and sunset are equally grand.

Where the desert meets the sea and hounds often run free.

 

 

Where thorn trees thrive, yet palm trees sway.

Where camels roam and freeways weave.

Where dust chokes and heat erodes

the stamina needed to stay on the go.

 

Where ancient and modern collide.

Where designer malls and souqs happily exist, side by side.

Where Karak Chai and Café Latte,

shawarmas and gourmet are equally dignified.

  

Where the city of glass rises from the sand

that is striving, striving, to overwhelm it again.

Where many cultures and religions reside.

Not colliding – working, living, peaceably, side-by-side.

 

Where we, unbelonging, belonged;

where we found our safe place,

our shelter.

Yes, You, Qatar, were the home we had.


I look back, over my shoulder.

How proudly you stand!

But we ...

we merely passed through like the shifting sand.


 (© Sandy Brandt, 2022)